Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship. Show all posts

Thursday, 11 May 2017

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Checkout These Beautiful Pre-Wedding Photos Of Couple Who Met As Corps Members.



Bride-to-be, Jeihlo and her man Omairo Itimi, met during their NYSC days. The guy shared their lovely pre-wedding photos and wrote;

“Loving you is the second best thing in the world , Finding u is the FIRST #nysc #nysc_9ja #nyscdiary #ajuwayacorpers #NaijaCorper”.

Monday, 14 November 2016

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Ladies, Don’t Be Fooled: 8 Signs Your Man is Just Using You for S*x

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You guys hang out, get intimate and then…he leaves. Is his post-sex disappearing act because he’s channeling Criss Angel or is he just using you for sex? Read into these 8 signs to find out if he’s just in it for the s*x.
We’ve all been there: Sleeping with a seemingly great guy whose motives we can’t seem to figure out. Maybe he’s giving mixed signals or no signals at all. Either way, something in us makes us wonder if he’s in it just for s*x.
Well your first clue, should be your trusty gut, but maybe your gut isn’t so trusty because it is wrapped up in insecurity. In that case, here are eight more clues that may help you solve the mystery of whether your lover is interested in you as more than just a bedmate.
WARNING: The truth of these clues may sting, but better to know where you stand, than to lay down for too long with the wrong guy, right?

1. Weekday lovers
If your guy seems to always be MIA during the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his literal to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women. “When a girl is just a girl I’m into for sex, I’ll never ask her out on a weekend. Weekends are strictly reserved for A-listers and new opportunities.” – Mike, 27, Chicago

2. Sporadic contact
A guy who is really into you will communicate regularly. A guy who is in it to sex it, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man’s name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation.

3. Invitation to nowhere
He never invites you to go out with him – his friend’s birthday party, his work happy hour, not even a lackluster dinner and a movie. Bottom line: “Dates” are always cozy nights in. Why? Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it… have s*x.

4. Time’s up!
You spend just enough time together for a little foreplay, s*x and maybe a nap. Unless there’s time and desire for a round two, a sex-only motivated man will bolt like a thief in the night before you even have time to turn over on his side.

5. Late-night lovers
A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, also known as a “booty-call”, when the day is done and quite possibly last call has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening.

6. Tangoless texts
The sex-only guy is remorseless when it comes to leaving your texts unresponded to for hours – even days – and sometimes doesn’t respond at all… unless of course you are reaching out to setup a boudoir appointment. And in that case if his RSVP his positive, his reply back is immediate. Same goes for phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, tweets or any other form of communication.

7. Sexy speak
You two speak one language: S*x. And that’s it. If you think hard about it, you may know everything about how he likes “it” but you have no clue where his parents live, what he wanted to be when he grew up, the food that makes him gag, and if he has a middle name. There’s lots of moaning and groaning, but no chatter about work, family, friends, problems, triumphs, etc. Sam, 31, of New York says, “A woman who presents herself as a sexual showpiece will be treated that way. Come to the table at the very beginning with more than just the ability to blow me away in the bedroom. Blow away my mind too and that way I’ll consider you relationship worthy. You don’t have to play like a virgin, you just need to offer more than T&A.”

8. Listen from the beginning
He told you straight up that he doesn’t want a girlfriend, doesn’t have time for a girlfriend, can’t deal with a girlfriend… and just wants to have casual fun. It is up to you if you want to listen… but remember, most guys don’t want to deliver news that women don’t want to hear unless they really mean it. Justin, 24 from Oakland says, “Know who you are and be in charge of what you want from the beginning. If you leave it up to me, then I’m probably going to go for what is easiest… and that’s never a relationship.”

Friday, 11 November 2016

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Ladies, Be Careful! These are ‘3 Alarm Signs’ He’s Just Using You…Run Away Fast



You pay every time you go out 
Even though he might be well off, but if you often find yourself paying every time the two of you are out on a date, it’s time you got the hint that he is just using you. While it’s okay to split the bill between the two of you, but make sure you do not make a habit of pulling out your wallet every time you are out with him.
He is only available when he needs you 
If he speaks to you or meets you every time he requires something, you should get the hint. Sometimes, girls fail to understand this habit of men and end up thinking that the guy is asking her for advice.
He is financially dependent on you 
Not only do you pay for your dates, but you also help him pay his bills. This is probably one of the greatest signs you need to watch out for. If he doesn’t even bother paying his own bills, it’s time for you to walk out.

Thursday, 10 November 2016

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Nigerian Guy Shares Neakady Photos Of His Girlfriend For Rejecting His Marriage Proposal

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A boy (using BOY because real men don’t do this) sent in over 52 very raunchy photos to us to post, claiming he wants to pay back hi girlfriend who left him because of their cultural difference. Read what he sent below;fullsizerender-3Instead of do what he wants, I have decided to drop a very  STREN WARNING!!! to every female out there to STOP sending their ynash photos to any man they are not married to! Must a relationship be built on sharing your toto and breast to guys?

Females for a change and making you great again mbok! Stop sending your breast and toto to people you are not married to.  The photos will be attached below but the victims face will be blacked out for her protection.
For the boy who sent this. I warn you to delete all those photos you sent me and move on with your life and if you try as much as go to any website to drop this photos and have it posted. I will blog your photo, number, Facebook, and house address. Yes, I will do that. So be warned
To show you a proof of the photos this boy sent….
aass

Wednesday, 9 November 2016

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10 Unmistakable Signs Showing She is Interested in You



Here are moments when the men are probably too relaxed when it comes to dating; they would rather allow things to play out and watch where the tides take them. 
Women on the other hand do not really have that patience. Their emotions would always betray them and sell them out.
It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in; they would always find one way or the other to reach out to the men and commune with them. When they are not speaking, they use body languages and that seems to work faster than speeches at times for men who understand these unwritten codes.
Men who do not have really have experience when it comes to dealing with women will find this piece helpful since it would be outrageous for us to tell women to be more forward and approach men first. The best we can do in this case is to help men decipher the signs ladies are throwing them. This would help them know when to act and when not to act.

In reality, there are men who would hang around ladies for as possible looking for signs that would give them the green light. Another issue men might have in this case is wrongly interpreting the signs and not acting immediately.
Find below some of the basic signs that says a woman is interested in you:

1. When she enjoys talking to you

If a lady does not like you at all, she would not waste her time trying to start a conversation with you. In this case, you are likely to get cold responses that has ‘Keep Off’ echoing in your head.

If a woman likes you, she would wanna talk to you at all cost and engage you whichever way she could. Topics that would interest you would always be discussed and she would be polite all through.

2. When she reaches out to you first


When a lady reaches out to you first without her calling for an official or work related issue, then she is definitely into you. Normally, women wait for the men to reach out to them first, they enjoy baiting men and love the attention they get from them.
But when a woman breaks this chasing rule and comes after you, then it is huge. If the feeling is mutual, then ‘Don’t Dull’ like Nigerians would say. Go for it man!

3. When she stalks you on social media


When a woman starts to stalk you on social media and monitors your Facebook page and activities without being paid, then you can never miss it. She is not just interested in you, she is already into you.
Depending on your plans concerning her, you may do as you deem fit. But if this is a lady you have been crushing on since like forever, your miracle has come. Do not forget to share the testimony.

4. When she touches you

This is flirting 101 activated. A lady who has tried all of the things above may decide to take it a notch higher and play this move on you. If you ignore this sign then we do not know how else to help you.
The mystery is gradually unraveling and you are getting a clearer picture of her feelings towards you. Do not act ignorant here. It would be totally unacceptable.

5. When she challenges the distance between you both

When a woman who has tried all forms of signs and body languages finally speaks out and queries your distance with her, then she is hundred and one percent into you. This is her solemn way of letting you know she wants things to intensify between you both.
At this point, she is telling you to feel free to call her at anytime, visit her more often and possibly take her out. This is what we would call ‘The-go-ahead’ sign.

6. When she tells you her relationship status


Of course, it has to be single. This is her saying ‘Look, I’m available. What are you waiting for?’ And in retrospect, what are you waiting for? For her to get on her knees and propose to you? Dey der.

7. When she touches her body

A lady who keeps touching her hair, face and body is obviously interested in you. Why else would a lady be drawing patterns on her body knowing fully well that your eyes would follow her hands as they touch these spots?
We would call this ‘Flirting 401′. It is an advanced form of flirting and a silent plea hoping you would be the one to trace pleasurable lines all over her body.

8. When she asks you some personal question


Why else would she do that if not because she is interested in you? This is a big sign; one that says she wants to know everything about you. She wants to be in your head and know you inside out. Cooperate with her if your emotion is on par with hers.

9. When she stares hard at you


A woman who is interested in you would stare hard at you because she cannot help keeping her eyes off you. If you catch her more than five times in a minute, we do not know what other sign you are looking for.

10. When she looks you in the eye


She wants you to read her clearly; she is bold enough to say she wants you with her eyes. A woman who is interested in you would laugh openly when you talk and would always lock gaze with you.

Monday, 7 November 2016

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Photos: Check Out This Twerking Bride And Her Excited Husband At Their Wedding



A newly-wedded couple spiced up their wedding ceremony after the bride decided to twerk for her man right in the presence of the excited guests. The groom appeared totally mesmerized judging from the look on his face….
Even at their traditional wedding in Delta state, the groom took the center stage as he delighted the guests with his dancing skills.


Saturday, 5 November 2016

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PLS ADVICE: My Boyfriend is very Aggressive with My Pant!es – Nigerian Girl Reveals Juicy Details



A young Nigerian lady has opened up on the s*xual antics of her boyfriend who constantly tears her panties with his bare teeth.

This unnamed Nigerian lady wrote to an online relationship page – Break or Make-up about the s*xual obsession of her man.

Read the story below:
I can’t take this anymore Bom so I must speak out. My boyfriend is too aggressive with my underwear, he has used all his teeth to tear all my panties and bra in the name of romantic s*x.
This guys teeth is so sharp that before you say jack he has used his teeth to destroy all my pant, chew this pant like chewing gum and start with my clit. The next thing he runs to my bra and say he needs something hard to bite on when he is enjoying the s*x.

I have asked him severally to stop acting like a vampire looking for blood to suck, you all need to be there to see his face as he moans chewing my panties or bra. I am really getting scared and uncomfortable, I have tried to call him to order but he says that is his nature to chew something hard during s*x and my panties and bra turns him on.
I stopped wearing panties and bra when I know it’s time to make love,I just wear my night gown, but do you all know that this guy chewed both the night gown. Please any advise for me? Because I don’t see any future with him before he chews me raw one day.

Friday, 4 November 2016

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Here’s How To Tell If Your Woman Has Fallen In Love With Another Man

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Love and marriage are two things that go hand in hand but marriage does not always mean the end of love. It is a celebration of finding a partner for life and starting a family. The heart will still respond to emotions and learn to love people. It will love your spouses’ family members, your children and so on. At times, it could also love someone you never expect. You can’t always control who you love. It happens and people decide to pretend like they don’t hoping the feelings will go away. For men, when they cheat, it is usually sex. For women, love could be cheating. Because when they fall deeply in love with someone else, they are willing to do anything for that person and no one will come in-between. Men, here are 4 sure signs she is in love with another man:
1. She refuses to let go of him
 
Perhaps you noticed how close they are and how often they talk. If you have mentioned to her that she should stop seeing or speaking with him and all she has done is refuse, this could be a sign. If she even goes to the extent of hiding to talk or see him, instead of getting rid of him completely, you can see she cares for him.

2. She does the same things for him
As a wife, she is to cater to some of your needs and be a good home keeper. If you find her cooking food in the house and making his portion, this is a sign she is in love.

3. She tells him more than she tells you 
4. She has openly said she loves him

Wednesday, 2 November 2016

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11 H0ttest Sp0ts Women Want You to Touch During S*x to Make Them Go Crazy

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1. Her Hair
Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.
 
2. Her Pelvis
Concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea; however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her v@gina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.

3. Her Inner Thighs
Touching her inner thighs without venturing into the v@ginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.

4. Her Feet
Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.

5. Her Earlobes
Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.

6. Her Palms
People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.

7. Behind Her Knees
This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.
 
8. The Small Of Her Back
The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.

9. Her Clavicle
A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.

10. The Nape Of Her Neck
Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.

11. Everywhere Else
Every inch of her body is covered with nerve endings that could be stimulated, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have some no-go places. Some women can’t stand to have their faces touched, while others find it unbearable if their hands are tickled. As you explore, you’ll learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.
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Guys! Here Are 8 Fl!rty Questions You Can Ask Your Girlfriend Or Crush

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When you meet a new woman, you enter a phase where understanding is non-existent, or only just starting to bud.
At this stage, dates and conversations might be a bit awkward as both of you do not really know the boundaries of the other person and what they find offensive.
As a man, however, there is an unsaid rule binding you, some sort of expectation in the mind of several women, that you will be good enough to keep them engaged, and ensure the conversation never winds down or become boring. This is not to say women are meant to be boring and monosyllabic in their responses, though.
How do you relate with her in a gentlemanly manner, but still retain that sexual, flirty edge in the conversation?
Asking each of these questions during your discussions could do the trick for you.
1. What did you think when you first saw me?
2. What’s your ideal romantic date?
3. What’s your biggest turn-on?
4. What’s your favorite place to be kissed?
5. Do you engage in dirty talk? Do you just like hearing it, or you actually do say dirty things, too??
6. Would you rather be considered sexy or smart?
7. Which feature of me do you think is the best?
8. What’s your favorite part of a man’s body?
Be careful to tactically infuse the questions in your conversations, and not just fire them all at once.
She’ll most likely suspect you crammed it from somewhere, and that’s not cool.

Saturday, 22 October 2016

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“She Came Prepared”; See What Happened Between A Bride And Her Groom At Their Wedding (Photos)

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This lady came fully prepared for her special day . A bride took her game to the next level at her recent wedding ceremony by showcasing her twerking skills.. The groom who was amazed with what was happening -was positioned on a chair by his bride who “tormented” him by twerking for him as the wedding guests cheered in delight. See more photos of the couple below;

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Friday, 21 October 2016

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I am Jessica, 21 years old. I own a boutique and I am financially balanced. All I need now is a serious Man

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Hi guys, i am here for serious and minded people. I am Jessica, 21 years old. I own a boutique and I am financially balanced. All I need now is a serious man that is not after my money, not fake but real, for a serious relationship, you can get my contact from the admin.
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So Adorable: Nigerian Couple Take Pre-wedding Photos to a Traditional Setting (Photos)



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Mildred and Jefferson‘s love chemistry is so apparent they couldn’t be more excited as they are about to wed this December, 2016.
As this beautiful couple prepare to exchange marital vows, here are their lovely pre-wedding photos mixed with a blend of the village setting and a taste of the modern society.
This has thrilled social media users who have commended the feel of the diversity in culture as expressed by the unnamed photographer.
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Thursday, 20 October 2016

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4 Shocking Things that Happen to You When You Stop Having S*x

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S*x could be used as a viable substitute for physical exercises according to medical experts.
During orgasm, there is a hormone named oxytocin a.k.a ‘cuddle hormone’ that gushes into your system. It’s the one responsible for the joy and the general feel good sensation coursing throughout your body after good s*x.
As interesting as the previous paragraph might be. Not every lady can have a fulfilling s*x life. These can be due to several reasons such as personal decision informed by religion or spirituality, plain bad s*x partners or whichever reason it might be. Ladies do also have dry periods of s*x. While some people think if a guy doesn’t have s*x for a while, his sperm might transform into tadpoles, which is totally false.
There are a few things that might happen if a lady stops having s*x, especially with the sexual organ itself, the v*gina:

1. Sex is painful
Having s*x for the first time or after a long period of time will be very distasteful, the pain can be severe.  The most common side effect of a prolonged celibate stretch is painful intercourse, says Brett Worly, MD an ob-gyn at the Ohio State University’s Wexner Medical Center. Just as it hurts when you go for a run after a long stint of couch-potato-ing, you might feel some pain relieving a dry spell, “because your muscles aren’t used to having s*x.”
The risk is even greater if your celibacy occurred because of something unpleasant, like an ugly breakup. “Psychological issues weighing on a person’s mind can cause pain, too,” says Worly.
 
The cure: Lubrication (the bottled kind is fine if you’re not producing enough on your own), foreplay, and communication are imperative. Worly advises couples to start slowly, to “ensure there’s no pain, and that it feels good.” And if it starts to hurt, stop. Try again another time, using even more foreplay, and even more lube. S*x isn’t a no-pain/no-gain type of activity.
2. V*gina Lockdown
The better looking sister of Shutdown, v*ginal pains can be very  transient, its possible for it to be cured with a good measure of endurance, foreplay and lubrication. While unluckily in some cases the constriction of the v*ginal muscle can be very bad that penetration is so tough even from a tampon or a finger.
The condition is called V*ginismus. It can be an aftermath of r*pe or abuse.
If this happens to you, get help right away. “I recommend seeing a gynecologist to get a diagnosis and a recommendation for a pelvic-floor physical therapist,” says s*x therapist Holly Richmond, PhD.
She explains that the pelvic-floor physical therapist will put you through a series of gentle exercises. “The therapist will also prescribe a series of dilators to insert, gradually increasing in size.”
3. Gone Orgasm
Orgasms are so terrific but if you’ve stopped having orgasms for a long period of time, your body is wired in such a way that it stops asking for it. Some people might be happy with us because it helps their abstinence lifestyle, it will make you lose all the benefits that s*x gives.
To get your groove back, Richmond advises a regular masturbation practice. See, masturbations isn’t as bad as people claim them to be. “Orgasms are just good,” she says. “By yourself or with a partner—your body will thank you for all the endorphins.”
“People who are comfortable masturbating tend to be more thoughtful and giving lovers,” Richmond says.
4. V*ginal atrophy
This would happen to folks who see s*x as less important after they’re out of their childbearing years, but that’s not the case, people.
The production of estrogen drops quickly during menopause. The v*gina and vulva have more estrogen receptors than any other part of the body, says Barn DePree, MD.
In post menopausal women, it’s “use it or lose it,” since an inactive s*x life can spur v*ginal atrophy. That means the walls of the v*gina dry out and become thin, so they’re more apt to tear.
Like the other professionals consulted, DePree recommends that women who don’t have a partner practice self-love on the regular. And if there is a partner in the picture, get busy. How much s*x is enough? “I have a 75-year-old patient who has sex two or three times a week,” says DePree.