Here are moments when the men are probably too relaxed when it comes to dating; they would rather allow things to play out and watch where the tides take them.
Women on the other hand do not really have that patience. Their emotions would always betray them and sell them out.
It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in; they would always find one way or the other to reach out to the men and commune with them. When they are not speaking, they use body languages and that seems to work faster than speeches at times for men who understand these unwritten codes.
Men who do not have really have experience when it comes to dealing with women will find this piece helpful since it would be outrageous for us to tell women to be more forward and approach men first. The best we can do in this case is to help men decipher the signs ladies are throwing them. This would help them know when to act and when not to act.
In reality, there are men who would hang around ladies for as possible looking for signs that would give them the green light. Another issue men might have in this case is wrongly interpreting the signs and not acting immediately.
Find below some of the basic signs that says a woman is interested in you:
1. When she enjoys talking to you
If a lady does not like you at all, she would not waste her time trying to start a conversation with you. In this case, you are likely to get cold responses that has ‘Keep Off’ echoing in your head.If a woman likes you, she would wanna talk to you at all cost and engage you whichever way she could. Topics that would interest you would always be discussed and she would be polite all through.
2. When she reaches out to you first
When a lady reaches out to you first without her calling for an official or work related issue, then she is definitely into you. Normally, women wait for the men to reach out to them first, they enjoy baiting men and love the attention they get from them.
But when a woman breaks this chasing rule and comes after you, then it is huge. If the feeling is mutual, then ‘Don’t Dull’ like Nigerians would say. Go for it man!
3. When she stalks you on social media
When a woman starts to stalk you on social media and monitors your Facebook page and activities without being paid, then you can never miss it. She is not just interested in you, she is already into you.
Depending on your plans concerning her, you may do as you deem fit. But if this is a lady you have been crushing on since like forever, your miracle has come. Do not forget to share the testimony.
4. When she touches you
This is flirting 101 activated. A lady who has tried all of the things above may decide to take it a notch higher and play this move on you. If you ignore this sign then we do not know how else to help you.The mystery is gradually unraveling and you are getting a clearer picture of her feelings towards you. Do not act ignorant here. It would be totally unacceptable.
5. When she challenges the distance between you both
When a woman who has tried all forms of signs and body languages finally speaks out and queries your distance with her, then she is hundred and one percent into you. This is her solemn way of letting you know she wants things to intensify between you both.At this point, she is telling you to feel free to call her at anytime, visit her more often and possibly take her out. This is what we would call ‘The-go-ahead’ sign.
6. When she tells you her relationship status
Of course, it has to be single. This is her saying ‘Look, I’m available. What are you waiting for?’ And in retrospect, what are you waiting for? For her to get on her knees and propose to you? Dey der.
7. When she touches her body
A lady who keeps touching her hair, face and body is obviously interested in you. Why else would a lady be drawing patterns on her body knowing fully well that your eyes would follow her hands as they touch these spots?We would call this ‘Flirting 401′. It is an advanced form of flirting and a silent plea hoping you would be the one to trace pleasurable lines all over her body.
8. When she asks you some personal question
Why else would she do that if not because she is interested in you? This is a big sign; one that says she wants to know everything about you. She wants to be in your head and know you inside out. Cooperate with her if your emotion is on par with hers.
9. When she stares hard at you
A woman who is interested in you would stare hard at you because she cannot help keeping her eyes off you. If you catch her more than five times in a minute, we do not know what other sign you are looking for.
10. When she looks you in the eye
She wants you to read her clearly; she is bold enough to say she wants you with her eyes. A woman who is interested in you would laugh openly when you talk and would always lock gaze with you.
