Ladies!! Checkout the Eight Questions to Ask Before Having S*x With Any Man

There are some questions you need to ask your partner and yourself before you introduce s*x into a relationship. Some are obvious, but other questions are not as straightforward.

The eight salient questions to ask are as follows, and they can give you insights into other info about him that you have not bothered to ask!

1 • Have you been tested?

Sexually Transmitted Infections are real and could be a life-changing, irreversible and regrettable experience if caught. So, you must discuss it, says human sexuality researcher, Dr. Nicole Prause. The easiest way to go is to get tested yourself, and then you can start the conversation with yourself.
2 • Are you married?

Even if this is just a casual relationship, you want to know if he’s seeing other women. And you should because — jealousy aside — it’s important to know what kind of situation you might be getting yourself into. Most of us assume if a guy is dating he isn’t betrothed, but, well, we’ve all heard the stories. Sure, a married man may not admit it, but by asking him directly, you’ll put him on the spot enough that he won’t be able to lie smoothly, either.

3 • Do you like your job?

What do you do? Do you enjoy it? What’s a typical workday like? Do you like your co-workers? Don’t ask him these questions all at once; but asking four or five specific questions about one topic is an easy way to spot a liar, according to retired CIA covert operations officer B.D. Foley. Remember, if he’s lying about something as trivial as his job (even if it’s just to impress you), he’s probably lying about other things too.

4 • Nice car! Is that what you use to pick up girls?

This enables you to see if he has an ego. A normal, humble guy will take compliments graciously, or even be embarrassed. But someone who is arrogant will use your words as a jumping off point to brag about himself or his exploits. If he takes every compliment you give him and follows it with a 10-minute speech about how amazing he is, he’s probably not the kind of guy you want to sleep with.

5 • Are you friends with your ex?

The way he talks about past relationships can be revealing, says a psychologist, Dr. Ben Michaelis. If he’s respectful when talking about an ex-lover, that’s a good sign that he’ll be respectful of you. But he doesn’t have to continue seeing her, just as you shouldn’t see an ex either.

6 • Discover his true colours.

The most important thing here is about anger or control issues. To determine whether he’s a regular guy or a possible serial killer, Foley suggests using a “mild provocation” ploy. Here’s how it works: Provoke him by gently teasing him about something he’s clearly proud of, like his new car or his nicely-groomed beard. “People with violent tendencies are often unable to resist a poke like this,” Foley says. “They’ll become irritated or even angry. It’s better to see this behaviour come out in a place where you’re surrounded by people, than in the bedroom. But keep it light, because you’re not actually trying to offend him.

7 • What should I expect?

Before you sleep with him, it’s important to ask yourself what you want in both the sexual encounter and the relationship. Be honest and realistic about what you expect to happen the morning after and what scenario you’re okay with.

8 • Am I okay never seeing him again?

If your answer is yes, then go for it. But if it’s no, you may want to wait until it is yes, or until you’re both ready for a more serious relationship.

Must Read : 13 Steps to Cope with a Cheating Spouse

Managing a spouse’s infidelity is one of life’s most stressful events. Follow these steps to cope with the situation…

Do not make any major decisionsAccording to www. marriage.about.com, do not quickly think about ending your marriage now just because your spouse has been unfaithful. This is the time to do some reflection on your marriage to see what other issues other than this infidelity need to be recognised and dealt with.

Understand that feelings are neither right nor wrong

Accept that your feelings of rage, uncertainty, shock, agitation, fear, pain, depression and confusion about having an unfaithful spouse are normal. You will be on a roller coaster of emotions for a few months and possibly even up to a year or two afterwards.

Take care of yourself

You may have some physical reactions to the infidelity such as nausea, diarrhoea, sleep problems (too little or too much), shakiness, and difficulty concentrating and not wanting to eat or overeating.

Balance is key

Despite your pain, you must force yourself to eat healthy foods, stay on a schedule, sleep regular hours, get some exercise each day,  drink plenty of water, and have some fun.

It’s still okay to laugh

Watch some funny movies or TV shows. Spend time with people who make you smile. Life goes on in spite of heartaches and unfaithful spouses.

Begin a journal

Write down your thoughts and feelings about your spouse’s unfaithfulness. Ask all the questions you want. Talk with your spouse about the infidelity. However, you may have to accept that your spouse may not know why the infidelity took place or may not want to reveal this to you.

Seek counselling

Do not try to get through coping with unfaithfulness alone! However, don’t shout from the highest mountain to all you know that your spouse is an unfaithful jerk. Carefully choose whom you will share this information with. Knowing the type of infidelity sometimes makes understanding it easier and counselling can help get answers to questions.

Take it one day at a time

You and your spouse should both be tested for AIDS/HIV and STDs before you resume sexual intimacy without protection. Consider what boundaries you need in your marriage in order to stay in the marriage. You might wish to contact an attorney and get these documented in a postnuptial agreement.

Your children need to know that you are going to be okay

You can’t hide the fact that you are going through serious stress or trauma. Being honest with your children might be the best approach depending upon their age, but don’t weigh them down with details. Also, don’t make promises that you can’t keep.

Try not to get into the blame-gaming

It is important that you do not get yourself worked up over who or what caused the infidelity. It’s just wasted energy and it will not change anything. Also, think twice before you tell your family or your spouse’s family about the infidelity. Family members can often hold grudges for a long time.

You may have post-traumatic stress

If you are jumpy, yell at trivial actions, feel like you are walking on egg shells, and continue to have physical reactions when you are reminded of the infidelity, see a physician as soon as you can. Medication, even temporarily, might be a good idea.

It takes time to get beyond the pain

Don’t expect the mixture of feelings, the sense of confusion and limbo, and the mistrust to go away just because you’ve tried to forgive your spouse and made a commitment to save your marriage. The stages of death and dying (denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance) are part of the grieving process. It doesn’t mean your marriage can’t be renewed and strengthened, because it can. But, it will be different. Remember that your marriage has changed. You will need to grieve that loss.

Get practical

Should you decide to end your marriage, look at your finances, housing situation, transportation, etc.  Make sure you have thought out where you will live, if you have enough money to pay for your essentials, etc.

Ladies, Don’t Be Fooled: 8 Signs Your Man is Just Using You for S*x

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You guys hang out, get intimate and then…he leaves. Is his post-sex disappearing act because he’s channeling Criss Angel or is he just using you for sex? Read into these 8 signs to find out if he’s just in it for the s*x.

We’ve all been there: Sleeping with a seemingly great guy whose motives we can’t seem to figure out. Maybe he’s giving mixed signals or no signals at all. Either way, something in us makes us wonder if he’s in it just for s*x.

Well your first clue, should be your trusty gut, but maybe your gut isn’t so trusty because it is wrapped up in insecurity. In that case, here are eight more clues that may help you solve the mystery of whether your lover is interested in you as more than just a bedmate.

WARNING: The truth of these clues may sting, but better to know where you stand, than to lay down for too long with the wrong guy, right?

1. Weekday lovers

If your guy seems to always be MIA during the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his literal to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women. “When a girl is just a girl I’m into for sex, I’ll never ask her out on a weekend. Weekends are strictly reserved for A-listers and new opportunities.” – Mike, 27, Chicago

2. Sporadic contact

A guy who is really into you will communicate regularly. A guy who is in it to sex it, calls, texts, emails and pops-over only when he is feeling frisky and knows that you will indulge his desires. If the sight of your man’s name on your caller ID surprises you, chances are, this is a sex only situation.

3. Invitation to nowhere

He never invites you to go out with him – his friend’s birthday party, his work happy hour, not even a lackluster dinner and a movie. Bottom line: “Dates” are always cozy nights in. Why? Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it… have s*x.

4. Time’s up!

You spend just enough time together for a little foreplay, s*x and maybe a nap. Unless there’s time and desire for a round two, a sex-only motivated man will bolt like a thief in the night before you even have time to turn over on his side.

5. Late-night lovers

A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, also known as a “booty-call”, when the day is done and quite possibly last call has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening.

6. Tangoless texts

The sex-only guy is remorseless when it comes to leaving your texts unresponded to for hours – even days – and sometimes doesn’t respond at all… unless of course you are reaching out to setup a boudoir appointment. And in that case if his RSVP his positive, his reply back is immediate. Same goes for phone calls, emails, Facebook messages, tweets or any other form of communication.

7. Sexy speak

You two speak one language: S*x. And that’s it. If you think hard about it, you may know everything about how he likes “it” but you have no clue where his parents live, what he wanted to be when he grew up, the food that makes him gag, and if he has a middle name. There’s lots of moaning and groaning, but no chatter about work, family, friends, problems, triumphs, etc. Sam, 31, of New York says, “A woman who presents herself as a sexual showpiece will be treated that way. Come to the table at the very beginning with more than just the ability to blow me away in the bedroom. Blow away my mind too and that way I’ll consider you relationship worthy. You don’t have to play like a virgin, you just need to offer more than T&A.”

8. Listen from the beginning

He told you straight up that he doesn’t want a girlfriend, doesn’t have time for a girlfriend, can’t deal with a girlfriend… and just wants to have casual fun. It is up to you if you want to listen… but remember, most guys don’t want to deliver news that women don’t want to hear unless they really mean it. Justin, 24 from Oakland says, “Know who you are and be in charge of what you want from the beginning. If you leave it up to me, then I’m probably going to go for what is easiest… and that’s never a relationship.”

Ladies, Be Careful! These are ‘3 Alarm Signs’ He’s Just Using You…Run Away Fast

You pay every time you go out 

Even though he might be well off, but if you often find yourself paying every time the two of you are out on a date, it’s time you got the hint that he is just using you. While it’s okay to split the bill between the two of you, but make sure you do not make a habit of pulling out your wallet every time you are out with him.

He is only available when he needs you 

If he speaks to you or meets you every time he requires something, you should get the hint. Sometimes, girls fail to understand this habit of men and end up thinking that the guy is asking her for advice.

He is financially dependent on you 

Not only do you pay for your dates, but you also help him pay his bills. This is probably one of the greatest signs you need to watch out for. If he doesn’t even bother paying his own bills, it’s time for you to walk out.

Guys Get In Here: 10 Reasons To Date A Chubby Plus Size Girl

A fat girl isn’t exactly what some men dream of dating. It may come off as cruel but ask any guy and they’ll often tell you their idea of a dream date is someone who looks like their favorite model or celebrity.

– You can say that it is insensitive calling girls with a lot of flesh, FAT and it is better when they are referred to as BIG

However, there are a number of reasons why dating a fat girl has its benefits. Infact, once you give it a shot, you may find going out with a fat lady a lot more enjoyable than hanging out with their skinny counterpart.

– The word FAT, however, drives the point home and I prefer using it in this article because it will communicate effectively

Bigger girls have their advantages and they are awesome people to date and hang around. They will laugh and smile a lot and that will make your day. This is why you should consider changing your taste.

For those wondering why you should date a fat girl, here are 10 reasons that would make you consider:

Easy to talk to. One of the things that make a fat girl interesting to date is their ability to talk about anything. Since they’ve made it a point to focus more on their brains and their personality instead of just their looks, they can engage you in a variety of topics that will keep you from being bored.

They are charming 

Fat girls know very well that their looks will probably not arrest your attention like curvy smaller women. To solve this they will often appear charming and sociable hence will click with you in no time.

Attitude is a word they leave with you to describe the other women with smaller physiques.

Pleasing personality. Admit it, the pretty women you’ve dated don’t always have an endearing personality. Since they think the world of themselves, don’t expect them to be all that nice towards you. That’s something you won’t have to deal with when dating a fat girl. Fat girls have a fun and bubbly personality and they don’t feel that the world revolves around them, making it easier to deal and hang out with them.

Fat girls are warm

Whichever way you understand ‘warm’, that is exactly what I mean. They are warm both physically and emotionally. They are welcoming and when cuddling one feels at ‘home’.

Their warmth can turn you on anytime like a bulb

Willingness to try any type of food. Not all girls are open to trying out different type of delicacies. So if you happen to enjoy trying out new dishes, dating a fat girl is a must. Since they enjoy having a good meal, expect them to be more than willing to be adventurous in trying out different restaurants and cuisines with you.

Affectionate. Fat girls love to hug and cuddle so if you’re the type who enjoys getting some affection from a girl, you can’t go wrong with dating a fat girl provided of course you give them the same amount of affection. Plus, they’ve got softer skin compared to skinny girls which makes hugging and cuddling them all the more fun.

The big body size is adventurous

The big physique gives you an interesting job; that of exploring her enormous body that is full of surprises every single day.

You are likely to discover new beauty spots even under her balloon-like boobs. You will also discover that they are good comforters because when you lie on their bosom, your problems tend to billow away like light smoke.

Open to engage in any of your favorite pastime. Fat girls aren’t shy of participating in your favorite pastime provided it won’t require them to exert any effort. Whether it’s watching your favorite TV show or playing your favorite video game, they’ll be more open and willing to bond with you and learn more about your favorite activities.

Most of them enjoy laughing

Every man loves seeing their lover laugh at their jokes even when they are not very hilarious. You can always think that they are full of laughing gas because triggering their laughter is the easiest thing in the world.

That makes them fun to be around.

Not afraid to go outdoors. Girls who are skinny often worry about their image from their skin all the way to their fingernails, which make the chances of them going with you outdoors slim. Fat girls however, are more than willing to get dirty and go outdoors with you. It doesn’t matter whether you want to go hiking or bike riding on a dirt trail, fat girls aren’t too finicky about getting a nail or two broken just for you.

You can take her anywhere. Fat girls aren’t just willing to anything with you, they’re also willing to go anywhere. They have no qualms about driving long hours just to go to the beach or to an exotic location. You won’t have to deal with complaints that the place you’re going to is too hot or out of the way.

She won’t be picked up by any guy. Guys who date slim women often have to fend off guys trying to steal them away. This is something you’ll rarely experience when dating a fat girl since most guys prefer hitting on women who have a body that’s similar to a figure usually reserved for models. As a result, you can go anywhere without fear of having your girl being stolen from you.

Opinionated. If you enjoy having a good conversation, you won’t get bored with dating a fat girl. Since most of them are very opinionated, they won’t be shy about expressing their thoughts on a particular subject making your conversation exciting and unpredictable.

Fleshy wet sex

Sex with fat girls is wholesome because they are tangible due to their fleshy bodies. There wells seldom go dry and when they are aroused they become jelly and juicy.

Even though they get exhausted faster than smaller ladies, they are always willing to try out new stuff.

As if that is not enough, her thunderous thighs cushion a man well when she is on top. The road to orgasm gets shorter then shortest in a no time.

Enjoys a good laugh. Fat girls are not shy or afraid to laugh. Since they’re not overly concerned about their appearance, they’re not worried about what they look like when they laugh out loud which makes them more fun to be around with. If you’re the type who enjoys injecting humor in a relationship, you can’t go wrong with telling a fat girl your list of jokes and silly quips.

Nigerian Guy Shares Neakady Photos Of His Girlfriend For Rejecting His Marriage Proposal

A boy (using BOY because real men don’t do this) sent in over 52 very raunchy photos to us to post, claiming he wants to pay back hi girlfriend who left him because of their cultural difference. Read what he sent below;Instead of do what he wants, I have decided to drop a very  STREN WARNING!!! to every female out there to STOP sending their ynash photos to any man they are not married to! Must a relationship be built on sharing your toto and breast to guys?

Females for a change and making you great again mbok! Stop sending your breast and toto to people you are not married to.  The photos will be attached below but the victims face will be blacked out for her protection.

For the boy who sent this. I warn you to delete all those photos you sent me and move on with your life and if you try as much as go to any website to drop this photos and have it posted. I will blog your photo, number, Facebook, and house address. Yes, I will do that. So be warned

To show you a proof of the photos this boy sent….

10 Unmistakable Signs Showing She is Interested in You

Here are moments when the men are probably too relaxed when it comes to dating; they would rather allow things to play out and watch where the tides take them. 
Women on the other hand do not really have that patience. Their emotions would always betray them and sell them out.
It is very hard for women to keep their emotions bottled in; they would always find one way or the other to reach out to the men and commune with them. When they are not speaking, they use body languages and that seems to work faster than speeches at times for men who understand these unwritten codes.
Men who do not have really have experience when it comes to dealing with women will find this piece helpful since it would be outrageous for us to tell women to be more forward and approach men first. The best we can do in this case is to help men decipher the signs ladies are throwing them. This would help them know when to act and when not to act.

In reality, there are men who would hang around ladies for as possible looking for signs that would give them the green light. Another issue men might have in this case is wrongly interpreting the signs and not acting immediately.
Find below some of the basic signs that says a woman is interested in you:

1. When she enjoys talking to you

If a lady does not like you at all, she would not waste her time trying to start a conversation with you. In this case, you are likely to get cold responses that has ‘Keep Off’ echoing in your head.

If a woman likes you, she would wanna talk to you at all cost and engage you whichever way she could. Topics that would interest you would always be discussed and she would be polite all through.

2. When she reaches out to you first

When a lady reaches out to you first without her calling for an official or work related issue, then she is definitely into you. Normally, women wait for the men to reach out to them first, they enjoy baiting men and love the attention they get from them.
But when a woman breaks this chasing rule and comes after you, then it is huge. If the feeling is mutual, then ‘Don’t Dull’ like Nigerians would say. Go for it man!

3. When she stalks you on social media

When a woman starts to stalk you on social media and monitors your Facebook page and activities without being paid, then you can never miss it. She is not just interested in you, she is already into you.
Depending on your plans concerning her, you may do as you deem fit. But if this is a lady you have been crushing on since like forever, your miracle has come. Do not forget to share the testimony.

4. When she touches you

This is flirting 101 activated. A lady who has tried all of the things above may decide to take it a notch higher and play this move on you. If you ignore this sign then we do not know how else to help you.
The mystery is gradually unraveling and you are getting a clearer picture of her feelings towards you. Do not act ignorant here. It would be totally unacceptable.

5. When she challenges the distance between you both

When a woman who has tried all forms of signs and body languages finally speaks out and queries your distance with her, then she is hundred and one percent into you. This is her solemn way of letting you know she wants things to intensify between you both.
At this point, she is telling you to feel free to call her at anytime, visit her more often and possibly take her out. This is what we would call ‘The-go-ahead’ sign.

6. When she tells you her relationship status

Of course, it has to be single. This is her saying ‘Look, I’m available. What are you waiting for?’ And in retrospect, what are you waiting for? For her to get on her knees and propose to you? Dey der.

7. When she touches her body

A lady who keeps touching her hair, face and body is obviously interested in you. Why else would a lady be drawing patterns on her body knowing fully well that your eyes would follow her hands as they touch these spots?
We would call this ‘Flirting 401′. It is an advanced form of flirting and a silent plea hoping you would be the one to trace pleasurable lines all over her body.

8. When she asks you some personal question

Why else would she do that if not because she is interested in you? This is a big sign; one that says she wants to know everything about you. She wants to be in your head and know you inside out. Cooperate with her if your emotion is on par with hers.

9. When she stares hard at you

A woman who is interested in you would stare hard at you because she cannot help keeping her eyes off you. If you catch her more than five times in a minute, we do not know what other sign you are looking for.

10. When she looks you in the eye

She wants you to read her clearly; she is bold enough to say she wants you with her eyes. A woman who is interested in you would laugh openly when you talk and would always lock gaze with you.

PLS ADVICE: My Boyfriend is very Aggressive with My Pant!es – Nigerian Girl Reveals Juicy Details

A young Nigerian lady has opened up on the s*xual antics of her boyfriend who constantly tears her panties with his bare teeth.

This unnamed Nigerian lady wrote to an online relationship page – Break or Make-up about the s*xual obsession of her man.

Read the story below:

I can’t take this anymore Bom so I must speak out. My boyfriend is too aggressive with my underwear, he has used all his teeth to tear all my panties and bra in the name of romantic s*x.

This guys teeth is so sharp that before you say jack he has used his teeth to destroy all my pant, chew this pant like chewing gum and start with my clit. The next thing he runs to my bra and say he needs something hard to bite on when he is enjoying the s*x.

I have asked him severally to stop acting like a vampire looking for blood to suck, you all need to be there to see his face as he moans chewing my panties or bra. I am really getting scared and uncomfortable, I have tried to call him to order but he says that is his nature to chew something hard during s*x and my panties and bra turns him on.

I stopped wearing panties and bra when I know it’s time to make love,I just wear my night gown, but do you all know that this guy chewed both the night gown. Please any advise for me? Because I don’t see any future with him before he chews me raw one day.

Here’s How To Tell If Your Woman Has Fallen In Love With Another Man

Love and marriage are two things that go hand in hand but marriage does not always mean the end of love. It is a celebration of finding a partner for life and starting a family. The heart will still respond to emotions and learn to love people. It will love your spouses’ family members, your children and so on. At times, it could also love someone you never expect. You can’t always control who you love. It happens and people decide to pretend like they don’t hoping the feelings will go away. For men, when they cheat, it is usually sex. For women, love could be cheating. Because when they fall deeply in love with someone else, they are willing to do anything for that person and no one will come in-between. Men, here are 4 sure signs she is in love with another man:

1. She refuses to let go of him
 

Perhaps you noticed how close they are and how often they talk. If you have mentioned to her that she should stop seeing or speaking with him and all she has done is refuse, this could be a sign. If she even goes to the extent of hiding to talk or see him, instead of getting rid of him completely, you can see she cares for him.

2. She does the same things for him

As a wife, she is to cater to some of your needs and be a good home keeper. If you find her cooking food in the house and making his portion, this is a sign she is in love.

3. She tells him more than she tells you 

4. She has openly said she loves him

11 H0ttest Sp0ts Women Want You to Touch During S*x to Make Them Go Crazy

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1. Her Hair

Maintaining their gorgeous locks isn’t the only reason women go to their hairstylists so often. The process of wash, cut, color, and styling can actually be quite a stress reliever. Running your hands gently through her hair is a surefire way to send tingles down her spine. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the nape of her neck and she’ll be putty in your hands.

 

2. Her Pelvis

Concentrating some affection on her pelvis is a great idea; however, you’ll have to resist the urge to slip down to her v@gina while you’re so close. Like teasing her inner thighs, kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she’s begging for more. Prolong the sensation by leaving the region to focus on another body part for a while.

3. Her Inner Thighs

Touching her inner thighs without venturing into the v@ginal area will make for an excellent tease that is sure to get her revved up. Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, getting excruciatingly close to her ultimate pleasure spot, but pulling back before going all the way.

4. Her Feet

Pulp Fiction taught us that rubbing the feet of another man’s wife may be an offense punishable by being thrown out a window, so the sensual appeal of a foot massage is obvious. There are few better ways to help her relax than to give her feet a good rub, especially if her job requires her to be on them all day. Do it right and grab some massage oil or lotion. Don’t forget to pay some attention to her toes, ankles and the sides of her feet too. Some women really enjoy having their toes sucked, but others find it repulsive, so asking first is a good idea before putting them in your mouth.

5. Her Earlobes

Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the earlobes of your woman will up the bliss factor for her. These delicate, soft lobes are very sensitive and most women thoroughly enjoy the sensation of having a man’s lips on them. You can nibble around the outside of the rest of her ear as well, but for courtesy’s sake avoid jamming your tongue inside her ear.

6. Her Palms

People often use their hands as tools to please their partners, but rarely do they consider the pleasure potential of stimulating the hands themselves. The palm of a woman’s hand is an innocuous spot to focus a little attention on without making people around you uncomfortable. Tracing your finger along her palm will give her delightful shivers and make you appear sensitive and attentive.

7. Behind Her Knees

This area is one that most men don’t think of when trying to stimulate a woman, but it is, in fact, quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirt while the two of you are in a public place will make her ready to get busy once you get home. Don’t forget to pay some more attention to this special spot once you’re alone too.

 

8. The Small Of Her Back

The best way to guide your woman through a crowd is to place your hand against the small of her back. This small gesture shows that you feel protective of her without being too pushy like an arm around the shoulder might be. When you’re alone, kissing or licking down her spine to end up with a kiss on the small of her back will get her heart racing.

9. Her Clavicle

A well-defined clavicle, or collarbone, can be very sexy on a woman. Why not show your appreciation for its beauty with your touch and kiss? Pay attention to this body part while she’s still fully clothed, unbuttoning her shirt just enough to reveal the clavicle and no further. You can always come back to it once the clothes have disappeared as well to remind her of the anticipation it created when you started there.

10. The Nape Of Her Neck

Once you get to the nape of her neck, place a few light kisses there. In ancient Japan, the back of a woman’s neck was seen as very attractive by men since it was one of the few places not covered by clothing. In modern times, the nape of the neck is often neglected in favor of more obvious pleasure centers, but never underestimate the power of gentle touches and kisses from her hairline to her shoulders.

11. Everywhere Else

Every inch of her body is covered with nerve endings that could be stimulated, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t have some no-go places. Some women can’t stand to have their faces touched, while others find it unbearable if their hands are tickled. As you explore, you’ll learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.

Guys! Here Are 8 Fl!rty Questions You Can Ask Your Girlfriend Or Crush

When you meet a new woman, you enter a phase where understanding is non-existent, or only just starting to bud.

At this stage, dates and conversations might be a bit awkward as both of you do not really know the boundaries of the other person and what they find offensive.

As a man, however, there is an unsaid rule binding you, some sort of expectation in the mind of several women, that you will be good enough to keep them engaged, and ensure the conversation never winds down or become boring. This is not to say women are meant to be boring and monosyllabic in their responses, though.

How do you relate with her in a gentlemanly manner, but still retain that sexual, flirty edge in the conversation?

Asking each of these questions during your discussions could do the trick for you.

1. What did you think when you first saw me?

2. What’s your ideal romantic date?

3. What’s your biggest turn-on?

4. What’s your favorite place to be kissed?

5. Do you engage in dirty talk? Do you just like hearing it, or you actually do say dirty things, too??

6. Would you rather be considered sexy or smart?

7. Which feature of me do you think is the best?

8. What’s your favorite part of a man’s body?

Be careful to tactically infuse the questions in your conversations, and not just fire them all at once.

She’ll most likely suspect you crammed it from somewhere, and that’s not cool.