Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Thursday 11 May 2017

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Checkout These Beautiful Pre-Wedding Photos Of Couple Who Met As Corps Members.



Bride-to-be, Jeihlo and her man Omairo Itimi, met during their NYSC days. The guy shared their lovely pre-wedding photos and wrote;

“Loving you is the second best thing in the world , Finding u is the FIRST #nysc #nysc_9ja #nyscdiary #ajuwayacorpers #NaijaCorper”.

Thursday 4 May 2017

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OH NO! Check Out Photos Of A Groom’s Ere*Cted J0yst!Ck During His Wedding Photo-Shoot (Video)



Mehn, when a brother cannot just wait to demolish his new wife! This photo has been making the rounds on social media with different people having different opinions about the cause of the erection! Obviously it was taken on their wedding day.
It may be that the couple have been in a no-s ex relationship for a very long time. Just saying tho… Lol. Look closely at the picture and tell me what you think.


Saturday 22 April 2017

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Wow! Confusion as 40 Brides in Wedding Gowns Take Over the Streets of Owerri (Photos)



The residents of Owerri, the Imo state capital were on Friday afternoon, left surprised and confused as over 40 brides were seen walking on the road in their wedding gowns.
According to reports, it was later revealed that the ladies were posing for a photo-shoot for an upcoming movie titled ‘The Choice’.
It was revealed further that authorities handling the latest project, shut down the First Inland Road in Owerri for the photo-shoot.
See photos below;




Monday 17 April 2017

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Must Read : Ladies See the Ways To Get A Man To Marry You Sharp Sharp



We live in a society where the man is expected to always make the first moves. He’s expected to be the first to chat a lady up, ask her out on a date, propose marriage to her and even initiate s*x. Hence, this makes it a lot more difficult for a woman to get a man to marry her than it is for a man to get a woman to marry.
I’m a man, so I have written from a man’s perspective on the subject. The following should give you the needed insight that will naturally elude most women. Now back to the original question; how can I get a man to marry me? The answer is simple; be the most qualified woman for him to marry. The process of being that kind of a woman is not as simple. The following tips will guide you…
1. Smile… a lot. Just smile. There is nothing as attractive as a woman’s face beaming with radiant smiles. It is alluring. Most men find it extremely charming. It also conveys a confident lovable personality. Laugh to his jokes, including the not-so-funny ones. You can at least laugh at him without making things look awkward. It makes you look real and relatable. When you go for an interview and you see your interviewers smiling, how do you feel? Positive. Optimistic. Confident. Right? That is the same way he feels when you smile to him. A smile is also a subtle but unnoticeable way to say “It’s okay to ask me out. I don’t bite.” Most guy will get the message without even knowing it was a message.
2. Show some green light. Many men find it difficult to take things to the next level with women for different reasons. Some are scared to lose her friendship if she doesn’t see them in that way. Some guys are  just scared of commitment. Others are simply awfully timid. They lose their composure and even their voice at the most crucial moment. The thought of it alone can paralyze the tongue of some guys. So you might have to help such a guy. Not by doing his job for him, but by making it easy for him. A reassuring smile will give him hints that the feeling is mutual; this will encourage him to face his demon and take things to the next level with you.
3. Be friendly and easy to get along with. This is not about showing green lights. It’s about being a pleasant person. Men naturally flock around pleasant ladies. It is bliss to be able to be himself around her without her making him feel like an endangered species. Be kind. Smile a lot. There is no better way to make people feel welcomed and good about themselves. Don’t judge people. Never be caught fighting someone, it is very unattractive and even scary to see a lady do that. Show genuine interest in others by listening when they talk and seeking to understand them. We are in a noisy world. Everyone wants to talk, but no one wants to listen. Be the listening ear. Be the one he always wants to talk to because he knows you will listen and not judge him. Trust me, when it comes to spending the rest of his life with someone, your chances are very high because he his certain he would be getting married to his friend.
4. Be a ‘wife material’. Who is a wife material? Simply put, it’s someone who has qualities of a good wife. Now the question is; what qualities do men seek for in their women? The answer may differ from man to man, but some things are basic to most men. Men want a great cook like their mothers. Someone who can satisfy them sexually and emotionally. Someone they can look forward to going home to after another hectic day. They want a God-fearing woman who would be a great mother to their children and can nurture a home. Being supportive, kind, clean, good-looking, would all be added advantages.
5. Be yourself. This is the most important of all. Never lose yourself in the name of being a “wife material”. Be authentic in whatever you do. Love yourself if you want others to love you and find you desirable. You cannot give what you don’t have. Never lose you originality. Be confident. Be real. This is by far one of the most attractive features most men look forward to in the woman of their dreams. Carry yourself well. Never lose your poise. How To Be Yourself
You cannot be perfect. Any guy who wants a perfect woman for a wife is delusional. You deserve better than such a man. But you can be better than you are right now. Be on a consistent quest to improve on your strengths and learn to control your weaknesses. Hence, the focus really is on you, not on the guys. Because better you are, the better your chances of attracting a serious man into your life since everyone wants a great woman as a wife anyway. You want to get a man to marry you? There you go, be an amazing woman.

Monday 14 November 2016

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Must Read : 7 Mistakes Newly Married Couples Should Avoid

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The goal of a wedding is staying married, not just the excitement of the day. These are just a few tips that will help you stay on that course.
The day you get married is the happiest day of your life. It’s the day you have spent the last few years dreaming about, and everything must go smoothly and perfectly just like you have dreamed it would. It is the day you will be gazing lovingly into the eyes of the love of your life while your heart is beating faster than it should. It is nothing short of bliss. Both of you are happy to have found each other.
But hard work lies ahead of you both to sustain your relationship. The thing is that marriage doesn’t come gift-wrapped. It comes in kit form, which means that you and your partner have to work at things. And you will find out as the years roll by that in a marriage, there are often just as many lows as there are highs. As much as couples would rather keep their marriage drama-free, the reality is that this is just not always possible.
However, there are several common mistakes married couples make which ensure that their marriage gets off to a bad start. The good news is that these pitfalls can easily be avoided.
Get your marriage off to an awesome start by avoiding these 10 mistakes:
Focusing on the wrong things
They say that there is no truer saying than life is what you make of it. But what does this phrase actually mean? It means different things to different people. If you focus on the bad stuff in life, your life will be negative. If you focus on the good stuff, your life will be much more positive.
It sounds so simple. Yet so many newly wed couples fall into the trap of getting annoyed by their partners’ failings. But instead of focusing on his penchant for lying in on a Sunday morning until noon or having a few beers after work when we want him home, why not focus on his good qualities a bit more?
Neglecting kind gestures
When you were dating, you both couldn’t stop showering each other with kindness. Don’t stop being kind to your partner because you have married them.
Insisting that you are always right
This is a big mistake that many couples make, and sometimes they prefer to be right than in love. Unfortunately, too many spouses are so insistent on being right that they compromise their marriage. A relationship is so much more than being right. Accept that mistakes happen. Accept that sometimes it’s okay not to be right – even if you are.
Getting too comfortable
Being comfortable with one another is perfect. But getting so comfortable that you stop putting in effort to make your relationship work is a bad thing.
Once you stop putting the effort into your relationship now that you are married, the fizz disappears. The excitement goes. Don’t get too comfortable. Keep things edgy and spontaneous.
Failing to talk about money matters
Your money is no longer just yours. You can no longer take a cavalier attitude to savings and spending. You must talk about your budget with your partner as soon as you guys tie the knot. Arguments about money are the most explosive types.
Refusing to give your partner their space
If you adopt a “we’re married now therefore you’re mine and you have to spend all your time with me” attitude you’re going to kill your marriage before it’s even started.
Sure, you now belong to one another. You share wedding rings, houses and maybe even bank accounts. But it doesn’t mean you have to do absolutely everything together.
It’s important that you still give your partner some space. Let air into the relationship by doing things independent of one another.
Expecting them to be just like you
We all take to marriage differently. Marriage is a big step in anyone’s life, and although you two are taking the step together, it doesn’t mean you’re going to think and act in exactly the same way.
Look, there will be disagreements about how to do things. Their habits and expectations of marriage will probably vary to yours. Don’t expect everything to be absolutely perfect and harmonious. If you do, you will only find it difficult to react when things don’t go your way.
Talk to each other about things. If you have concerns, raise them. But always listen to what they have to say.
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Photos : See What later happened to this bride that wore this Nonsense on her wedding day

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A bride has the right to wear whatever she wants as long as her groom, family and the church is okay with it but what this bride wore to her wedding caused major debate on social media with many saying it was inappropriate.

Even the bridesmaid join sef…lol. But what do you guys think, was it too much?